When I first got here, I wondered if living in community would be a challenge. I’m with the same people, pretty much 24/7. But it has turned out to be quite the opposite. It’s such a blessing to be in this environment that is just oozing with brotherly/sisterly love.
Yesterday morning, the guys came over to the girls’ house with breakfast they had gotten up early to cook for us. Usually, the guys have breakfast in the dining room, and the girls stay at our house to eat (cereal and toast). But yesterday the guys surprised us with chocolate chip pancakes, fruit, yogurt, BACON (!!), juice – everything we could have possibly wanted for breakfast! And then they did our dishes! All just because they love us and wanted to bless us.
It just so happens that on the very same day, some of the girls had planned to do something special to bless the guys. This was a complete coincidence that it happened on the same day – neither group had any idea the other group had been planning anything at all. Some of the girls spent part of the afternoon baking apple crisp and bread pudding. They cut out construction-paper hands and put a name on each one. We all wrote encouraging words for each guy on his paper hand. Later in the evening after dinner, a group of girls went over and got the guys, blindfolded them, and led them back to our house in a very round-about way (through a field, over a fence, etc. – all blindfolded … you know how boys like adventure). Then we sat them down and read them their encouraging words, then we all had the warm dessert (with ice cream) and coffee. What a fun day!
These are big examples of the love that abounds here, but people do little things all the time. Just the other day, I was sitting at the table working on something, and one of the girls came over and made me a cup of coffee – just because she knows I like coffee. At least a couple times a week someone will pull out a box of biscuits or chocolates to share. Several students have made payments on other students’ outreach fee accounts. People give each other compliments and encouragements on a daily basis. These so-called “little” things have enormous impact. As DC Talk used to say, “Love is a verb,” and I’m surrounded by people who really understand that.
“If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.”
I Corinthians 13: 1-3